He could also really benefit from a good nap in the afternoon, because towards the middle of the afternoon, he gets really whiny, and 3 out of 10 trips to pick up Violet from school result in him falling asleep in his car seat. He'll sleep for 2 hrs if I leave him in the car. It wrecks his bedtime, however, and he ends up bouncing off the walls and not settling down that well going to bed if he naps during the day.
We are currently working on helping him deal with his emotions. His default when upset is to scream at the top of his lungs very, very loudly. He is praised for coming to us telling us about a problem with out freaking out. And he's also testing his limits, and has been getting lots of spanking lately for being disobedient and deliberately doing things that will make Violet upset. It amazes me how quickly he can go from one end of the spectrum of emotions to the other. Sometimes if he is upset, I will wait 15 seconds, and if he doesn't start giggling, I know something is wrong.
I found him in a cardboard box upside down the other day, and watching a Thomas movie upside down as well.
That upsidedown photo is totally cool...totally Calvin. His temperment will need a lot of "pruning" so my God give you loving firmness so the discipline is profitable. It's all for his own good. Sorry about the screaming. He will have to substitute words and learn to control the emotions alright...as we all do! My he bloom into a trustworthy and loving child with God directing your daily trials.
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Love,
Mom
oops I meant "may" rather than "my" a couple times there! silly fingers
ReplyDeleteThe upside down thing is tooooo funny! You are such a good insiteful writer Maria. Its gotta be so hard dealing with it all. But loads of love pour out through your parenting ! Good job! I just love everything about that kid.
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